Hello friends and family. Sorry for
the long delay since my last blog. It's been a bit busy with things here in
Makeni. A lot of “FIRSTS” for me - some good, some not so good, but all for
God's glory. I'm sure there will be more to come.
It took me to move to Africa to
attend my FIRST Chrism Mass. It was so beautiful and fun. I met so many people
whose names I will never remember (the name thing is not a first, that's a
daily event for me 😄) The
gentlemen in black I assume are their version for Knights of Columbus. It was
pretty cool.
I experienced my FIRST big holiday
being without my family. Thankfully Sally was still here and we had a quiet and
lovely day. We went to Mass at the church near the hospital with some of the
Sisters. It was a beautiful Mass and the longest Mass thus far - over 3 hours.
The kids that received their Sacraments the day before, presented Father with a
song/dance and a gift. It was very fun!! Sally made it through, but needed to
rest afterwards. There were no filling and hiding plastic eggs and spending the
day with my family eating Honey baked ham. Instead we watched “Jesus movies” and
talked about our traditions.
Due to some medical issues that
could not be figured out here in Sierra Leone, my amazing housemate &
friend Sally left back to America to figure things out so that she can return
when she's better. The drive to the airport is a six hours round trip! She left
on a Wednesday and arrived on Thursday, tired but safe and now her new journey
of finding out what is happening begins. Please pray for her quick recovery and
return.
Right after Sally left, we welcomed a new missionary Nancy Maglorie. She will be working at the University of Makeni so she is living on campus - their apartments are very nice, I might be a little jealous. It's unfortunate that she won't be so close but it's just over 1km to where she's living. We're already planning on taking trips and venturing out of Makeni and seeing Sierra Leone, God willing. Our friend Sheku helps me find my way and takes me to.the market when I'm in need of different things. He is the FIRST person I introduced Nancy to. I had never been to the university so he picked me up and we went to visit Nancy and take her to dinner.
Work continues to be a source of
joy, happiness and learning as well as my biggest challenge and source of
frustration and even sadness. It's been a while since I worked “on the floor”.
I'm used to “treat ‘em and street ‘em”, or get them stabilized and transfer
them to the appropriate floor/department or in the case of my last nursing
position, to the appropriate hospital. Administering timed medications,
recovering patients after they have surgery, WRITING all notes and recording
medications (they don't have an electronic medical record, everything is on
paper - downtime 24/7!) There are a lot of things I have to dig out of my old
brain and hope I'm remembering it correctly.
Since my arrival at Holy Spirit hospital, I've taken care of a few acutely sick patients. Most of whom have most likely suffered some sort of stroke. Because the hospital doesn't have a CAT scan, the doctors can't know if it was a “bleed or a clot”. You would treat these two things very differently. With my medical knowledge and the condition of the patient's deterioration, I knew that these patients would most likely not survive. With God's hand, and close monitoring, I was able to keep them alive through my shift but then all but one, passed away on the next shift. I was able to teach some of the students and staff the different things to look for in stroke victims, signs that they would want to look for both improvement and deterioration in the patient. One of them actually was able to be discharged with ongoing physical therapy and close monitoring. I was so thrilled that he recovered - Praise God! But with that being said, my last acute patient was not as fortunate and went home to be with our Lord. She was my FIRST to pass away. I remember the first patient who passed when I started working in the medical field as a secretary nearly 30 years ago. I remember my first patient who passed when I became a nurse. And now I will forever remember that lovely soul and her family. May God grant her eternal rest. She was the FIRST, I'm sure there will be more. It seems that death is much more common here than in the U.S. - it is another thing that I will need to get used to unfortunately, but I know and pray for them as they are passing, or as they are recovering.
Sorry for bumming y'all out. I never want to end these on a negative note so let me tell you about a fun FIRST that happened last night. The Expats will have game nights, movie nights, or other gatherings and I had yet to attend one for various reasons. But last night they were offering a screening of the movie Hail Mary at one of the local libation establishments (i.e. at a local bar). It was a movie I was wanting to see before I left home but it hadn't been released to the theaters yet. I asked my friend Sheku if he would be interested in seeing the movie with us or at least willing to give me a ride there and home afterwards. He said he would like to see the movie with us so we joined several other expats and locals and watched the movie at Kiva's bar. It was SOO GOOD!! I highly recommend it! They had fresh popped popcorn, wings and other snacks. Because of the electricity being out earlier in the day, the beer was warm but having lived in Germany back in the 80s, I had experienced room temperature beer so I decided to indulge even though it was not cold. Thanks to one of the Italians that live on the same compound that I do, I did NOT have to experience my FIRST bike ride home after dark. She gave me a ride in her car!! Riding on a motorbike in the dark was a FIRST I'm okay not experiencing unless I have to! 😄
I'll end this by asking you all to pray for all of the missionaries and volunteers that are trying to make a difference all over this big beautiful world. God bless you all and thank you for your continued love, support and prayers.
Much love and many blessings to you all!
Kathy




Dear Kathy, Happy May 13th and Our Lady of Fatima :)
ReplyDeleteWith today being the 13th of the month and my day to pray for you. I thought it was about time I figured out how to find your blog. Hopefully I am responding to you ;)
It was wonderful to read about your life there.
Overall it sounds like you are doing well.
Life here has been good and also a bit hard.
Thankfully all is good with me and life at the parish is
all good!
Jim's is having some health issues :(
The radiation in did in December was successful and
the lymphnode with some cancer cells is now gone :)
However one new blood test show a very small amount of
cancer some where in his body that is not showing on the Pet Scan. So to be proactive he has started immunotherapy.
Which has sent us down a new rabbit hole :(
Since his original neo bladder surgery his creatinine has been
gradually getting higher. It is now very concerning.
His urologist did a procedure a few weeks ago to see if
there is a blockage from his ureters to his kidneys. Sadly
he was unable to find the ureters and so he could not see
if there is a blockage. We decided to get a second opinion on
what to do. We meet with the urologist that did coach Sanders
surgery last summer. She is on of the top neo bladder surgeons in the country.
She was very matter of fact and said....the kidney situation
is very bad and said the main thing right now is to save the
kidenys before they get any worse. Jim will have on Monday
tubes inserted into his kidneys for the urine to come out into
bags. This hopefully will allow the kidneys to heal and then
she can also see if there is any kind of blockage between the
kidneys and where the ureters are in his neo bladder.
If there is then another surgery will be done at some point this
summer. With you being a nurse ...I gave more info then I have to others since I am fairly sure this all makes some kind of sense to you :)
On top of all of this Jim now has bronchitis :(
He and I both know and trust God is with us through
all of it...but for a few days we have been a bit deflated!
I went to Mass today and did the Rosary after and it really helped to remember its all in God's hands and continue to
surrender it all to him every day!!!
I am sure you can relate with some of your low days there.
Please keep Jim in your prayers...and know you are always in mine...especially today the 13th of the month :)
Miss you....love you...xo Ilene